tools: update icu to 65.1

Update the version of the bundled ICU (deps/icu-small) to ICU version
65.2.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/30211
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29540

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31433
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30232


Reviewed-By: Steven R Loomis <srloomis@us.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <usharma1998@gmail.com>