test: fix http2 connection abort test

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/21836
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21561

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21861


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Minwoo Jung <minwoo@nodesource.com>