deps: upgrade to libuv 1.23.0

Notable changes:
- Restores compatibility with the old IPC protocol.
- Adds uv_open_osfhandle().
- Adds uv_os_{get,set}priority().

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24103
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22365
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/21671
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/15433
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21675
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node-addon-api/issues/304
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/abi-stable-node/issues/318


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>