src: add TimerWrap utility

Consolidate uv_timer_t boilerplate code into a shared utility.
There are several places throughout the code where we use uv_timer_t
internally (inspector, perf, quic), with some code duplication.
This eliminates the duplicated code, ensures that cleanup occurs
correctly, and simplifies use of the timers.

Signed-off-by: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34186


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>