test: refactor test-benchmark-timers

* add `type` option to reduce combinations of benchmarks run (saves
  about 15% on run duration of test on my local machine)
* alphabetize options

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14464


Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>