Revert "n-api: detect deadlocks in thread-safe function"

This reverts commit aeb7084f.

The solution creates incorrect behaviour on Windows.

Re: https://github.com/nodejs/node-addon-api/pull/697#issuecomment-612993476


Signed-off-by: Gabriel Schulhof <gabriel.schulhof@intel.com>
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32880


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Chengzhong Wu <legendecas@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gerhard Stöbich <deb2001-github@yahoo.de>