build: include the libuv and zlib into node

Add libuv and zlib into node executable and shared lib. Also fix an
issue that openssl is not fully included in node executable for macOS.

Signed-off-by: Yihong Wang <yh.wang@ibm.com>

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17444
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18383


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>