build: add configure flag to build V8 with DCHECKs

Add a configure flag that enables building V8 with `-DDEBUG`, in
particular with debug checks enabled and with runtime debugging
features, e.g. inspecting JS objects from debuggers, enabled.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32787


Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matheus Marchini <mat@mmarchini.me>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>