tls: disallow conflicting TLS protocol options

Do not allow the minimum protocol level to be set higher than the max
protocol level.

See: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26951, 109c0977

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27521


Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>