deps: fix wrong default for v8 handle zapping

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23801
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/23796


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matheus Marchini <mat@mmarchini.me>