src: rename CHECK_NOT_OOB() macro

Rename CHECK_NOT_OOB() to THROW_AND_RETURN_IF_OOB() because the old name
suggests it asserts and aborts when it is really a control flow macro.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/8784


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>