module: Allow runMain to be ESM

This follows the EPS an allows the node CLI to have ESM as an entry point.
`node ./example.mjs`. A newer V8 is needed for `import()` so that is not
included. `import.meta` is still in specification stage so that also is not
included.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/14369


Author: Bradley Farias <bradley.meck@gmail.com>
Author: Guy Bedford <guybedford@gmail.com>
Author: Jan Krems <jan.krems@groupon.com>
Author: Timothy Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Author: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Author: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>