tls: support enableTrace in TLSSocket()

This commit adds the enableTrace option to the TLSSocket
constructor. It also plumbs the option through other relevant
APIs.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27497


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>