doc: fix, unify, formalize, and amplify vm.md

`vm` module API heavily reuses common code, but the doc seems
to be a bit out of date: some options are listed in wrong places,
some options and history entries are missed.

Also some fragments need to be formalized and unified.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/25422


Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <usharma1998@gmail.com>