src: change constructor behavior in stream_base-inl.h

Change ConstructorBehavior from kAllow to kThrow.

Co-authored-by: Bruce A. MacNaughton <bmacnaughton@gmail.com>
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23453
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23447


Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>