timers: allow promisified timeouts/immediates to be canceled

Using the new experimental AbortController...

Signed-off-by: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33833


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>