events: lazy load perf_hooks for EventTarget

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33717


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
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Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Juan José Arboleda <soyjuanarbol@gmail.com>
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