esm: --experimental-wasm-modules integration support

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/27659


Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>