deps: cherry-pick akamai/openssl/commit/d5a13ca6e29f3ff85c731770ab0ee2f2487bf8b3

Original Commit Message:

  Prevent KeyUpdate for QUIC

  QUIC does not use the TLS KeyUpdate message/mechanism, and indeed
  it is an error to generate or receive such a message.  Add the
  necessary checks (noting that the check for receipt should be
  redundant since SSL_provide_quic_data() is the only way to provide
  input to the TLS layer for a QUIC connection).

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34033


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>