doc: add warnings about transferring Buffers and ArrayBuffer

Signed-off-by: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33252


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Mathias Buus <mathiasbuus@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Juan José Arboleda <soyjuanarbol@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>