tls: destroy TLS socket if StreamWrap is destroyed

Previously, there was no mechanism in place that would
have destroyed the TLS socket once the underlying socket
had been closed.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24290
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24288
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24075


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ouyang Yadong <oyydoibh@gmail.com>