deps: switch openssl to quictls/openssl

As of
https://github.com/quictls/openssl/commit/0c70d481811a4d1311f47b074261a069b095d019

Source: https://github.com/quictls/openssl/tree/OpenSSL_1_1_1j+quic


Signed-off-by: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37601


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>