test: log before and after RSS in memory leak test

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/21076

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21080


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Reviewed-By: Сковорода Никита Андреевич <chalkerx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yuta Hiroto <hello@hiroppy.me>
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Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
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