src: add public APIs to manage v8::TracingController

We added a hack for this a while ago for Electron, so let’s remove
that hack and make this an official API.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28724
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/33800

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33850


Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>