doc: reorder deprecated tls docs

In other api docs, it seems that deprecated classes and methods are
listed along with others, and marked as deprecated. In tls docs,
deprecations were listed at the bottom of the document. This commit
reorders them to what seems to be the standard, and corrects some links
in doc/api/deprecations.md

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34687


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>