util: improve spliceOne perf

Do less variable allocations and reassignments inside spliceOne
since it's relied on by some performance sensitive code.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20453


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
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Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>