tools: sync gyp code base with node-gyp repo

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30563


Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <ryzokuken@disroot.org>
Reviewed-By: Christian Clauss <cclauss@me.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>