test: verify arguments length in common.expectsError

If `common.expectsError` is used as a callback, it will now also
verify that there is only one argument (the expected error).

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22850
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20311


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>