tls: make 'createSecureContext' honor more options

Added options: `ticketKeys` and `sessionTimeout`, that are honored by
`createServer`, that calls `createSecureContext`.

This also introduces a minor code simplification.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33974
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/20908


Reviewed-By: Alba Mendez <me@alba.sh>
Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <ryzokuken@disroot.org>