tools: update ESLint to 8.1.0

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40582


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Reviewed-By: Voltrex <mohammadkeyvanzade94@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>