worker: improve MessagePort performance

Use a JS function as the single entry point for emitting `.onmessage()`
calls, avoiding the overhead of manually constructing each message
event object in C++.

                                                                             confidence improvement accuracy (*)   (**)  (***)
    worker/echo.js n=100000 sendsPerBroadcast=1 payload='object' workers=1         ***     16.34 %       ±1.16% ±1.54% ±1.99%
    worker/echo.js n=100000 sendsPerBroadcast=1 payload='string' workers=1         ***     24.41 %       ±1.50% ±1.99% ±2.58%
    worker/echo.js n=100000 sendsPerBroadcast=10 payload='object' workers=1        ***     26.66 %       ±1.54% ±2.05% ±2.65%
    worker/echo.js n=100000 sendsPerBroadcast=10 payload='string' workers=1        ***     32.72 %       ±1.60% ±2.11% ±2.73%
    worker/messageport.js n=1000000 payload='object'                               ***     40.28 %       ±1.48% ±1.95% ±2.52%
    worker/messageport.js n=1000000 payload='string'                               ***     76.95 %       ±2.19% ±2.90% ±3.75%

Also fix handling exceptions returned from `MessagePort::New`.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31605


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Denys Otrishko <shishugi@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>