events: improve listeners() performance

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33863


Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gerhard Stöbich <deb2001-github@yahoo.de>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yongsheng Zhang <zyszys98@gmail.com>