tools: update to using dmn 1.0.11

dmn 1.0.11 is available. Update update-eslint.sh to use it. Update
update-babel-eslint.sh to use it too via npx. Add removeNPMAbsolutePaths
to the latter while we're at it.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22035


Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Roman Reiss <me@silverwind.io>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>