test: make common.mustNotCall show file:linenumber

When a test fails via `common.mustNotCall` it is sometimes hard to
determine exactly what was called. This modification stores the
caller's file and line number by using the V8 Error API to capture
a stack at the time `common.mustNotCall()` is called. In the event
of failure, this information is printed.

This change also exposes a new function in test/common, `getCallSite()`
which accepts a `function` and returns a `String` with the file name and
line number for the function.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/17257


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gibson Fahnestock <gibfahn@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Khaidi Chu <i@2333.moe>