tls: throw error on bad ciphers option

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21557


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>