async_hooks: add executionAsyncResource

Remove the need for the destroy hook in the basic APM case.

Co-authored-by: Stephen Belanger <admin@stephenbelanger.com>
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30959


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Vladimir de Turckheim <vlad2t@hotmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Chengzhong Wu <legendecas@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>