tools: update V8 gypfiles for 9.3

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39469
Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39947


Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>