cli: allow --jitless V8 flag in NODE_OPTIONS

This work is modeled on #30094 which allowed
`--disallow-code-generation-from-strings` in `NODE_OPTIONS`.

The `--jitless` v8 option has been supported since 12.0.0. As a v8
option, node automatically picks it up, but there have been a few issues
that were resolved by simply telling users about the option: #26758,

This PR:
  - allows `--jitless` in `NODE_OPTIONS`
  - documents `--jitless`
  - moves `--experimental-loader=module` to locally restore alphabetical
    order in option documentation

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30094
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/26758
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/28800

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32100


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Sam Roberts <vieuxtech@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Shelley Vohr <codebytere@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: David Carlier <devnexen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>