lib: migrate from process.binding to internalBinding

We are migrating towards using internalBinding(\'options\').getOptions()
instead of process.binding(\'config\') to access the value of the
--experimental-vm-modules command line option.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23586


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>