http: doc deprecate abort and improve docs

Doc deprecates ClientRequest.abort in favor of
ClientRequest.destroy. Also improves event order
documentation for abort and destroy.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/32225

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32807


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Zeyu Yang <himself65@outlook.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>