tty: fix 'resize' event regression

It's not wholly clear what commit introduced the regression but between
v8.4.0 and v8.5.0 the 'resize' event stopped getting emitted when the
tty was resized.

The SIGWINCH event listener apparently was being installed before the
support code for `process.on('SIGWINCH', ...)` was.  Fix that by moving
said support code to real early in the bootstrap process.

This commit also seems to fix a Windows-only "write EINVAL" error for
reasons even less well-understood...

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/16141
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/16194
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/16225


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Yuta Hiroto <hello@about-hiroppy.com>