async_hooks: execute destroy hooks earlier

Use a microtask to call destroy hooks in case there are a lot queued
as immediate may be scheduled late in case of long running
promise chains.

Queuing a mircrotasks in GC context is not allowed therefore an
interrupt is triggered to do this in JS context as fast as possible.

fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/34328
refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/33896

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34342
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/34328
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/33896


Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>