test: module loading error fix solaris #3798

- refactor test to accept multiple error messages per platform
- add new message to be found in Solaris 11.3 as per #3798

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/3855


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Evan Lucas <evanlucas@me.com>