build: fix library version and compile flags on Android

Compiling a library with -fPIE won't do, and on Android libraries
are not versioned.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29388


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Christian Clauss <cclauss@me.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>