lib: make internal/options lazy

This way, internal modules can still require the module
and cache the function getOptionValue() early (therefore
these code can be included in the snapshots), but the
options map won't be serialized from C++ land until the
option values are actually queried.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38993
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/35711
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/38905


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Zijian Liu <lxxyxzj@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>