util: add `maxStrLength` option to `inspect` function

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/25478

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32392


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
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Reviewed-By: Matheus Marchini <mat@mmarchini.me>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
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