net: emit "write after end" errors in the next tick

This commit makes those errors caused by calling
`net.Socket.write()` after sockets ending be emitted in the next
tick.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24457
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/24111


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>