tools: update remark-preset-lint-node to 1.10.1

This includes better link linting, improved prohibited string linting,
and a more maintainable code base by using remark-preset-int-recommended
(thanks nschonni!).

Update other dependencies while at it.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29982


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>