stream: use callback to properly propagate error

The stream will be destroyed upstream through the proper error
flow.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29179


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>