async_hooks: use resource objects for Promises

Use `PromiseWrap` resource objects whose lifetimes are tied to
the `Promise` instances themselves to track promises, and have
a `.promise` getter that points to the `Promise` and a `.parent`
property that points to the parent Promise’s resource object,
if there is any.

The properties are implemented as getters for internal fields
rather than normal properties in the hope that it helps keep
performance for the common case that async_hooks users will
often not inspect them.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/13452


Reviewed-By: Andreas Madsen <amwebdk@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trevor Norris <trev.norris@gmail.com>